fellowship

Relapse Prevention

Relapse Prevention 2

There are several things we can do to prevent ourselves from relapsing. We also have many strategies that we use in recovery to maintain our sobriety and keep ourselves healthy. The first rule of recovery is that we must change our lives. What about our lives need to be changed? Well just about everything really. [...]

The Best Fellowship 0

Which fellowship is better, AA, NA, any A? It’s a question tossed around, argued, and discussed a lot. Seriously people, it is the wrong question to be asking in my now humble (after having to eat a lot of humble pie) opinion. I think the question we should be asking (of ourselves, not the “experts”) [...]

Happy (sober) New Year 0

New year. New beginnings. New chances to be me.  Explore things I never thought possible. Love, life, and everything in between. I have a love story in me that has allowed me to love another. Greatest story ever told? Hell to the yes it is! Embracing myself regardless of what’s going on?  Cranky? Yeah who [...]

A Better Way of Life

A Better Way of Life 0

When we come to the rooms of AA/NA, most of us have hit our bottom. We are completely broken down and have lost just about everything and everyone in our lives. Most, possibly all, of our family members had completely lost hope that we would ever find our way. That we was lost to the [...]

Becoming Myself Again

Becoming Myself Again 2

In sobriety, we begin to interact with the world around us again. We stop isolating ourselves and start living an actual life. When we was using we felt it necessary to stay away from anyone and everyone unless they were somehow involved in our addiction. We kept around people like us or those who hadn’t [...]

Who Am I

Who Am I 0

We have very little control or power over our lives, but the one thing we do have control over is our actions. If I really want to get to know myself, I need to watch myself while I am in action. What I do in each situation is a reflection of who I am. I [...]

i don’t like… this meeting.

i don’t like… this meeting. 2

Ever walked into a meeting and felt like you were home? How bout the opposite? Walked into a meeting and felt unwelcomed and like you didn’t belong? Like you walked right into the middle of Recovery Clique central? Now. I know what you’re gonna say … there are no strangers only friends we haven’t met yet. [...]

Finding a Light in All That Darkness!!!

Finding a Light in All That Darkness!!! 2

To wake up and live through another day clean and sober is to see life a with a whole new attitude. I marvel at my new-found freedom, freedom from the bondage of drug abuse that is. My days are so much brighter, my nights so much easier and overall just a beautiful thing to live [...]

“that” person…

“that” person… 2

Insult to injury leads to broken noses. oh wait. I’m non-violent. (damn Buddhism and damn recovery. I can’t get away with that these days.) Throw-away people. I was one of those today. You know the kind that sit in waiting rooms asking for those “hand outs.” The kind that have three children to care for [...]

I’m Not Seve Ballesteros!

I’m Not Seve Ballesteros! 1

Like a lot of businessmen in their mid-forties, my sporting days were behind me.  In my day I’d been a very active triathlete, cyclist and rugby player. But having achieved a good standard at these sports, the mix of age and frustration at not being able to reach previous benchmarks led me away from them [...]